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Week 1: Mapping Your Biological Hardware

Body Signals: Learning to Notice What Your Body Is Telling You

Welcome to Emotional & Social Literacy. Over the next 18 weeks, you will practice noticing what is happening inside you and around you.

This week starts with one big idea:

Your body sends little messages all day. Heartbeat, breath, hunger, tight shoulders, tired eyes, hot cheeks, wiggly legs, butterflies in your stomach - these are body signals. The grown-up toolbox word is telemetry.

You do not have to explain a body signal right away. First, you learn to notice it.

Think of this week like becoming a Body Signal Detective. You are learning to read your own body dashboard: heart, breath, stomach, shoulders, and energy.

Coping Skill Moment

Be a Signal Detective right now: pick one body clue you can feel this minute — shoulders, stomach, or breath — and just name it silently. "That's a signal." A signal gives you information; it does not have to choose your action. (More in My System Has Signals.)


Kid Version

This week's idea in kid language: "Your body sends little messages all day. This week you practice noticing them so you can understand yourself a little sooner."

Facilitator Snapshot
  • This is a low-stakes sensory week. The goal is curiosity, not deep sharing.
  • Lead with body signals. Offer telemetry as an optional toolbox word.
  • Use drawing, pointing, stickers, or oral answers before asking for writing.
  • Do not ask why the child feels something. Stay with what they notice.
  • Introduce the Telemetry Log as a Body Signal Notebook if that language lands better.

Week at a Glance

Prep time~10 minutes
MaterialsA notebook for the Body Signal Notebook (Telemetry Log), paper, pencil, crayons or markers, an ice cube or textured object, a timer
Key vocabularybody signals, telemetry, baseline, body dashboard
DifficultyIntroductory

Facilitator Preparation

Before You Begin
  • Get a notebook the student will keep all 18 weeks. The kid-facing name can be Body Signal Notebook. The formal toolbox name is Telemetry Log.
  • Bring a simple body outline or blank paper for drawing.
  • Have an ice cube, cold bottle, or textured object ready.
  • Have a timer ready.
  • Read the "For Younger Learners" block below before teaching.
Facilitation Mindset

This week, resist the urge to interpret. If a student says "my stomach feels weird," do not jump to "you must be nervous." Stay with the clue:

"Show me where. Is it tight, fluttery, heavy, hot, or empty?"

You are teaching the student to become a body signal detective, not asking them to prove why the signal showed up.

For Younger Learners (Ages 8–9)

Adapting This Week

Simplest version of the concept: "Your body is always sending you little messages. Today we are practicing listening to them."

What to shorten or skip:

  • Keep sessions to 15 to 20 minutes.
  • Use 3 to 5 body signals instead of a long list.
  • Skip any activity that feels too personal and switch to object noticing.

Adapting the activities:

  • Use drawing first. A body map with arrows or colored dots counts.
  • Let the student point, act it out, or pick from picture words.
  • Try simple examples: after recess, before homework, after a loud lunch, or when a sibling grabs a toy.

Journal alternative: Have the student draw a body with labels like "hot face," "wiggly legs," or "tight shoulders." They can also tell you one signal and you write it down.

What success looks like: The student can name at least one specific body signal they noticed today, such as "my heart got fast" or "my stomach felt fluttery."


Guided Session 1

Body Signal Detective

Learning Goal

By the end of this session, the student can:

  • name at least 5 body signals they can notice on purpose
  • use clear words such as warm, tight, fluttery, shaky, heavy, or sleepy
  • show one signal by drawing, pointing, acting it out, or saying it aloud

Activities

1. The 60-Second Notice-and-Name

Sit comfortably. Set a timer for 60 seconds.

Ask the student:

"For one minute, see how many body clues you can notice. You do not have to tell what they mean. Just notice them."

After the minute, make a list together. Common examples include:

  • heartbeat: slow, medium, fast
  • breath: deep, shallow, bouncy
  • stomach: hungry, fluttery, full, tight
  • shoulders: loose, raised, tense
  • hands: warm, cold, sweaty, still
  • face: hot cheeks, tight jaw
  • legs: wiggly, jumpy, heavy
  • energy: sleepy, medium, full of buzz

If the student only notices two or three, that is normal. Model your own:

"I notice my shoulders feel a little tight. I notice my breath is medium-slow."

Choice and Privacy Note

Students do not need to share body signals aloud. They can point to a body map, circle words, draw what they notice, or keep the observation private in their log.

If a body-scan style activity feels too personal, switch to an object scan: notice the color, shape, weight, texture, and temperature of a nearby object for 60 seconds, then compare how the body feels before and after. The goal is noticing signals, not forcing interoception.


2. Draw Your Body Dashboard

On paper, draw a pretend dashboard with five lights:

  • Heart
  • Breath
  • Stomach
  • Shoulders
  • Energy

Let the student color or mark each light:

  • green for calm or steady
  • yellow for noticeable
  • red for strong or extra loud

Ask:

"What might your dashboard look like before a spelling test? After soccer? At a loud lunch table?"

This makes the idea visual right away.

Choice and Privacy Note

Students do not have to share body signals aloud. They can point to a body map, circle picture words, use stickers, or keep the observation private in their notebook.

If body noticing feels too personal, switch to an object detective version: notice the color, texture, temperature, and weight of an object for 60 seconds, then compare how the body feels before and after.


3. Signals Change and Pass

Have the student hold an ice cube, cold bottle, or textured object for 15 to 20 seconds.

Ask during the activity:

"What is your body saying right now? Where do you notice it?"

Then ask after they put it down:

"What changed? What stayed? Did the signal get bigger first and then smaller?"

Key idea:

Signals are real, and signals change. A strong body feeling can show up, peak, and pass.


Guided Session 2

What's Normal for Me?

Learning Goal

By the end of this session, the student can:

  • describe baseline as what is normal for their body when nothing special is happening
  • notice when a signal gets stronger than baseline
  • name at least 3 reasons the same signal might show up

Activities

1. Baseline Check

Explain:

"A baseline is your usual starting place. It is what your body is doing when nothing big is going on."

Do a short check:

  • breath: slow, medium, fast
  • heart: calm, medium, fast
  • stomach: okay, hungry, fluttery
  • shoulders: loose or tight
  • energy: low, medium, high

Write it down as the first Body Signal Notebook entry.


2. Spike Spotting

Have the student do 30 to 60 seconds of movement, such as:

  • jumping jacks
  • jogging in place
  • hallway walking fast
  • dancing to one song clip

Then do the same check again.

Ask:

"What changed fast? What stayed the same? How can you tell this is a body signal and not a problem?"

Point out:

A fast heart can mean you ran. A fast heart can also mean nerves, excitement, or surprise. The signal is a clue. The meaning comes later.


3. Same Signal, Different Reasons

Ask:

"If your heart is beating fast, what are three different reasons that could happen?"

Possible answers:

  • you just ran at recess
  • you are excited for a game
  • you feel nervous about homework
  • someone surprised you
  • the lunchroom is really loud

This helps students learn that a signal is information, not a command.


Calm Strategy Practice

A calm strategy is not a magic button. It gives your brain and body a little more space before you choose what to do next.

The goal is not to hide feelings or make a learner look calm for someone else. The goal is to practice safe choices that create more room for noticing.

Possible calm strategies:

  • slow breathing
  • counting
  • stretching
  • walking
  • drawing
  • journaling
  • using a fidget or sensory tool
  • asking for a break
  • drinking water
  • naming the feeling
  • finding a quiet space
  • talking to a trusted person
  • using a visual scale
  • listening to music when appropriate
  • using AAC, cards, or gestures to ask for help

Different strategies work for different people. A strategy that helps one learner may annoy or overwhelm another learner. The goal is to build a menu of safe choices.

Independent Practice

Goal

Practice noticing body signals during the day and make the first entries in the Body Signal Notebook.

Activities

1. Three Short Scans

For 3 days, do a 30-second scan at three times:

  • morning
  • after school
  • evening

Answer any two of these:

  • What is my heart doing?
  • What is my breath doing?
  • Any tight spots?
  • What is my energy like?

Minimum viable version: Do one scan a day. Draw a small body and add one arrow or sticker where you noticed a signal.


2. One Strong-Signal Note

If you notice a strong signal during the day, write or say one short note:

"At ___, I noticed ___ in my ___."

Examples:

  • "At recess, I noticed my heart was fast."
  • "Before homework, I noticed my shoulders were tight."
  • "After a loud lunch, I noticed my head felt tired."

No long explanation needed. Small examples count.

Solo/Small-Group Fallback

This week is fully solo-friendly. No partner activities required.

Telemetry Log

Start your Body Signal Notebook this week. The formal toolbox name is Telemetry Log.

Add this first entry:

My usual baseline: breath ___, heart ___, energy ___, tight spots ___

One body signal I noticed: ___

What was going on when I noticed it: ___

Sentence starters for younger learners:

  • "Today I felt ___ in my ___."
  • "When I noticed that, I was ___."

Low-writing options: draw a body map, use colored dots, circle icons, or tell an adult and let them scribe.

Reflection Questions

  • Which signal was easiest to notice?
  • Which signal was hardest to notice?
  • Did your body tell you something before your words caught up?

Check for Understanding

After this week, check whether the learner can:

  1. Name signals clearly: "Name 3 body signals you can notice right now." (Looking for: clear words such as "tight chest," "fast breath," or "cold hands.")
  2. Understand baseline: "What does baseline mean?" (Looking for: "what is normal for me when nothing special is happening.")
  3. Treat signals as clues: "If your heart starts beating fast, does that always mean something is wrong?" (Looking for: "no, it could mean lots of things; it is information.")

If the learner can do at least 2 of these, they are ready for Week 2.



Pause and Notice

What Matters Here

One of the most important things students learn this week is this:

Signals come, they peak, and they pass.

An uncomfortable signal does not last forever. A strong signal is not proof that something is wrong with the child. It is a clue from the body dashboard.

This week's takeaway: You are not your body signals. You are the person learning to notice them.


Spiral Review

Connecting to Earlier Weeks

This is the first week of the curriculum — no prior content to review yet. Going forward, this section will connect new ideas to what we've already built.


Simplify (Ages 8–9)

If the student is younger, stick with the body map and the dashboard picture. The main idea is enough: "My body sends me messages, and I can notice them on purpose."

Extend (Ages 10–12)

Have the older learner track one signal, such as breath, heart, or jaw tension, five different times during the day. Ask what situations make it change and what stays steady.

Vocabulary This Week

body signals, telemetry (toolbox word), baseline, body dashboard